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Nicole met Jordan on Bumble, where she technically had no choice but to message first (rules are rules). She showed up to the Pourhouse with the energy of someone who had already decided how the evening would go. Jordan, meanwhile, found her slightly terrifying and completely magnetic. The date was easy, a little reckless, and the kind of honest that only happens when two people have absolutely nothing to lose — and everything to gain.
Jordan knew fast. Embarrassingly fast. Cancel-two-other-dates-that-week fast. By date three, he asked her to be exclusive. Nicole blinked. It was bold, possibly premature, but there was something disarming about a man with zero interest in playing it cool. The first time the word "love" came out of Jordan's mouth, it wasn't even directed at Nicole. It was on his sister Sam's birthday — to Sam — while Nicole was sitting right beside him. It wasn't planned. It wasn't smooth. But Nicole thought it was cute — just odd that she wasn't the one he said it to first.


They do not like the same things, but this has never been a problem. Nicole will find Jordan on the couch, inexplicably furious about a couple's behavior on 90 Day Fiancé, a reality show he claims not to watch. Jordan will catch Nicole shoving her phone in his face like it's a crime scene, pointing out horrible spacing on a website. He only has himself to blame for that one. Different in every way that doesn't matter. Aligned in every way that does.
On May 4th, 2024, in Tofino, pajamas, wine, no agenda, they sat down to play "We're Not Really Strangers." What Nicole didn't know was that the deck in front of her didn't exist in any store. Jordan had designed it. Printed it. Shuffled it into the box like it belonged there. Card by card, question by question, the answers got quieter and the room got smaller. The last card told her to close her eyes. When she opened them, he was on one knee.

Met at Shaw. Instantly dubbed one of the Meatballs. Survivor of a Lai family vacation to Malaysia. Intelligent, thoughtful, and hardworking in a way that's almost annoying.

Also Shaw. Also a Meatball. Their brothers and ages are swapped in a way that is funny and has never not been funny. Authentic, caring, and one of the kindest people Nicole knows.

High school bestie, former roommate. Has seen every version of Nicole and stuck around for all of them. Once threw expired sauces on an ex's truck as a full grown adult. Thick as thieves.

High school basketball rival turned best friend via Shaw. Always early. Frequently found at Costco. Generous, chill, and fiercely loyal.

High school bestie. Opposite in every way except sushi dates and moral compass. The most internally Asian white girl Nicole has ever met. Nicole is the reverse. It works.

Jordan's sister. Gets along with Nicole so well they don't need him in the room. The sister she never had. Super excited to officially gain one.

Grew up together. Brother from another mother. A heart of gold and a socially unacceptable sense of humor that Jordan finds absolutely hilarious.

Through the good times and the worst of times. Usually with a beer in hand and a roaring laugh at someone else's expense. We keep rockin.

Cactus Club alum. Matches Jordan's antics and sometimes raises them. Enjoys an old fashioned and shooting guns. Not always in that order.

Cactus Club alum. Cool, quiet, and kinda weird with the unpredictability of a jungle cat. Hawaii travel buddy. The one who gets lost. You've been warned.

Cactus Club alum. The resident chef and the team’s dad. By far the sweetest of the bunch and the most responsible. Every group needs one.

Cactus Club alum. Still standing. Got the drip, got the swag. Hang-ten brother.

Nestled in the countryside of Chilliwack, Bridlewoods Event Center is surrounded by the natural beauty of the Fraser Valley. With its indoor hall, relaxed atmosphere, and countryside charm, it's exactly where we want to gather, celebrate, and spend the evening together.
Cocktail attire. Think suits, cocktail dresses, or anything you feel great in. Just skip the white and ivory — that's Nicole's job.
Plenty of free parking on gravel at the venue. There's a roundabout near the front entrance for anyone with accessibility or mobility needs. You're also welcome to leave your car overnight.
We kindly ask that phones stay tucked away during the ceremony. Be present with us — our photographer will handle the rest.
Your presence at our wedding is the greatest gift. If you feel inclined to give, we would gratefully appreciate a contribution toward our honeymoon fund.

A comfortable and modern hotel offering complimentary breakfast, an indoor pool, and a fitness centre. Conveniently located near shops and restaurants, it provides an easy and welcoming option for overnight guests.
A modern Marriott hotel featuring contemporary rooms, complimentary breakfast, and amenities such as a heated outdoor pool and hot tub—perfect for relaxing before or after the celebration.


A bright and modern hotel with comfortable rooms, complimentary breakfast, and an indoor pool. It offers convenient access to downtown Chilliwack and nearby restaurants.
Can I bring a plus one?
Only guests named on your invitation are invited. We promise you'll still have fun.
Are children invited?
Yes, if they're on your invitation. No randos.
Will transportation be provided if I stay at a hotel?
If enough guests are staying nearby, we'll look into a shuttle or taxi vouchers. Let us know your situation and we'll figure it out together.
What kind of food will be served?
Buffet dinner. There will be lots to choose from, nobody will go hungry, come hungry!
Can you accommodate dietary restrictions?
Yes. Let us know when you RSVP and we'll make sure you're covered.
Will there be an open bar?
Yes. Pace yourselves.
Is there a photo booth?
Yes. No duck faces. Actually, fine. Duck faces.
When is the RSVP deadline?
Please RSVP by September 1, 2026 so we can finalize details with our vendors.
How do I RSVP?
Please RSVP through your emailed invitation.
I missed the RSVP deadline — what should I do?
Reach out to us directly. We'll do our best, but no guarantees.
What if it rains?
Good thing we'll be indoors... the venue is also equipped with umbrellas.